Clearly you have no problem with the 40+% trans suicide rate. You refuse to get them the help they need.
They do get help they need.
Clearly you have no problem with the 40+% trans suicide rate. You refuse to get them the help they need.
They do get help they need.
Encouraging them to do what they do and pretend it isn't a mental illness isn't working based on the results.
What results?
A 10x greater suicide rate.
A 10x greater suicide rate.
And provide examples of parents encouraging their children to be trans.
Who said they encouraged them to make that decision?
You said there wasn't a problem with being trans. What is there to help?
If they don't care enough about themselves to get the help they need, why should I care about them more than they care about themselves?
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You don't think mental illness is a problem?
That the suicide rate among trans is going down.
I genuinely appreciate your concern for people on this matter. I tend to think mostly along your lines of reasoning. Where you and I seem to differ is in your seeming unwillingness to acknowledge that there is something abnormal about the mental condition of the gender-confused.No they don't. They are not mentally ill.
I genuinely appreciate your concern for people on this matter. I tend to think mostly along your lines of reasoning. Where you and I seem to differ is in your seeming unwillingness to acknowledge that there is something abnormal about the mental condition of the gender-confused.
I totally understand the aversion to loaded terms. When discussing a topic such as this I want to avoid all stigma and judgementalism. At the same time, we can't have any sort of productive discussion if we are required to ignore the elephant in the room.
Those who are gender-confused commit suicide far more frequently simply because believing one is of the wrong biological gender understandably puts one in an insufferable position. The situation is not helped by wearing different clothes or even by undergoing a medical procedure. The suicide rate doesn't decrease after sex-change operations; they simply denote that one was desperate enough to try having a procedure to see if it might help. Many who have such operations discover that not only has it not helped but they see the irreparable damage they have inflicted upon their own bodies.
I claim that if one truly cares about the gender-confused that a trained psychologist should be recommended/made available immediately upon discovery of said condition to address the mental health. We don't need to use terms like "mentally ill" or "freaks" or even "unnatural." Gender-confusion is a 100% natural occurrence. It is not synthetic and it is not artificial. It is, however, abnormal. I don't see how this topic can be rationally addressed without acknowledging the abnormality or the seriousness of gender-confusion.
Correct. That is the semantic being used, i.e. statisitcal. No stigma, no judgement, just the acknowledgement that it is not normal."Abnormal" is a statistical term. In that sense, you're correct.
Nope. They are specifically confused about their gender, believing that they are of a gender that differs from what their biology indicates.And what does "gender-confused" means? They know their own biological sexes.
I totally share your desire to remove all loaded terms from the discussion. In that effort I claim that if we remove even the terms necessary to have a productive discussion that we cannot therefore have a productive discussion.Those who think it's a mental illness are the ones who is ignoring the elephant in the room.
Nope. It is directly linked. Denial of this will totally undermine any progress you might try to make in reducing the suicide rate of the gender-confused. The drugs and alcohol are incidental to the gender-confusion.That's a different topic.
Yes, this is what I meant when I wrote that a sex-change operation simply denotes how far someone is willing to go to try to find some sort of relief.Also, most transgender people don't want surgery.
That word "treat" implies success. Better wording is that they address it by attempting to treat it.That is why gender dysphoria is in DSM. When a transgender person suffers from it, they treat it.
Correct. That is the semantic being used, i.e. statisitcal. No stigma, no judgement, just the acknowledgement that it is not normal.
Nope. They are specifically confused about their gender, believing that they are of a gender that differs from what their biology indicates.
I totally share your desire to remove all loaded terms from the discussion. In that effort I claim that if we remove even the terms necessary to have a productive discussion that we cannot therefore have a productive discussion.
We need: "Abnormal" and "Gender-confused"
Nope. It is directly linked. Denial of this will totally undermine any progress you might try to make in reducing the suicide rate of the gender-confused. The drugs and alcohol are incidental to the gender-confusion.
Yes, this is what I meant when I wrote that a sex-change operation simply denotes how far someone is willing to go to try to find some sort of relief.
That word "treat" implies success. Better wording is that they address it by attempting to treat it.
Correct. They are confused about their gender.Again, they are not confused about their biological sexes.
I respect your opinion; I simply do not share it. I claim you will admirably continue projecting great compassion for your fellow man ... but you won't move the line of scrimmage any.We do not need "Gender-confused".
I was certainly discussing it.Suicide is not being discussed.
It is interesting that you refer to a sex-change operation and to hormone therapy as "cosmetic."Plenty of people are willing to have cosmetic surgery. Also have tattoos.
What is your measure of "success"? Thus far we have not had any gender-confusion treatment that has had any effect on removing gender-confusion. The only success has been in the completely natural process of allowing children to grow out of phases that might have indicated gender-confusion.Gender dysphoria treatment has been a success.
Correct. They are confused about their gender.
I respect your opinion; I simply do not share it. I claim you will admirably continue projecting great compassion for your fellow man ... but you won't move the line of scrimmage any.
I was certainly discussing it.
It is interesting that you refer to a sex-change operation and to hormone therapy as "cosmetic."
What is your measure of "success"? Thus far we have not had any gender-confusion treatment that has had any effect on removing gender-confusion. The only success has been in the completely natural process of allowing children to grow out of phases that might have indicated gender-confusion.
One of the problems we face is the limitation on language. We are trying to apply an appropriately descriptive label to something very complex and intangible.What does that mean? You have not explained.
It's included in said medical procedures.I didn't mention hormone therapy.
Superficial appearance only, not anything substantive affecting health. Doctors take the Hippocratic oath to do no harm. They aren't supposed to remove a penis if it is healthy. They aren't supposed to remove a healthy appendix, even as a preventative measure so that you never get appendicitis. Putting aside the ethics issues, this can nonetheless serve as a delinieation of what type of procedure is purely superficial and what bears substance on someone's health.Tell me, what is cosmetic surgery for?
One of the problems we face is the limitation on language. We are trying to apply an appropriately descriptive label to something very complex and intangible.
What I mean by "gender-confusion" is that sense of confusion when someone in question perceives his/her gender not matching his/her obvious biological gender and having that feeling "this isn't right," i.e. gender confusion.
It's included in said medical procedures.
Superficial appearance only, not anything substantive affecting health. Doctors take the Hippocratic oath to do no harm. They aren't supposed to remove a penis if it is healthy. They aren't supposed to remove a healthy appendix, even as a preventative measure so that you never get appendicitis. Putting aside the ethics issues, this can nonetheless serve as a delinieation of what type of procedure is purely superficial and what bears substance on someone's health.
Good question, btw.