Lol, you were the one who claimed it was a year, so therefore it wasn’t recent implying it shouldn’t be affecting her. I simply told you after three years I am still affected by my dad’s death. My girlfriend has depression after 10 years of losing her son, so I was showing you instances of people grieving after a long period of time and still being affected, some people never recover. Jeebus, you do exactly what you claim I did, by stating you have lost people but you got better after a few months, some people aren’t like you, some people it takes longer, some people never grieve.