It's an ineffective solution since they are still unhappy and in pain. Angry and hateful people are not happy people.
The Power of Hate and Its Consequences
A Personal Perspective: To deal with hate, we have to understand it at its root.
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The consequence of hate, however, is twofold. On the one hand, hate has many consequences for people harmed by hate. Domestic hate may cause physical harm or even death. Active hate on the streets harms and kills others in the community. These are the obvious consequences of hate.
But the other consequence is less obvious. Hate creates an empty hole in the individual who hates. And the only thing that can fill that hole is more hate. Everything else is invalid and cannot prove the need for hate. The more one begins to feel that emptiness, the more one has to hate—that empty hole is frightening. The more one fears it, the more one builds hate rooted in that fear.
Bitterness and Bliss: A Study by PsychTests on Why We Hate Happy People
/PRNewswire-PRWeb/ -- How do you feel when you see a couple holding hands and gazing lovingly into each other's eyes, someone laughing and having fun, or a...
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"If you hate the fact that other people are happy and you're not, stop looking at what's going on outside of you and, most importantly, stop comparing yourself. Turn your perception inward. What do you need to work on in yourself in order to expand your well-being? It might be a matter of improving your self-esteem, your ability to handle conflict, your relationship skills, your fear of intimacy, or your attachment issues. It might require working on your job skills so that you can find better employment and increase your earning potential. It might also be time to work on your mental health and even cut people out of your life who are dragging you down. Perhaps some volunteering could help you get out of your funk and generate some happy hormones. Whatever the case, you need to make changes on the inside in order to see changes on the outside. Happiness always starts from within," concludes Dr. Jerabek.
