Hello ThatOwlWoman,
Yes, it is. Sadly some of us here are incapable of that and have to resort to their usual misogynist put-downs and lies.
It does require a rigid stance behind a strict ignore policy. That requires purposely changing habits, not easy to do.
I also have a personal rule that I do not talk about people on my Ignore List. I figure I owe them that if I won't respond to anything they say. They essentially just disappear from the forum as far as I am concerned. Nothing more than a chore to scroll past the place-holders, sometimes a page at a time...
But that makes it easy for me to cover a lot of ground in a shorter time, and only focus on civil discourse. I am totally spoiling myself by being so selective, I know, but I also got completely out of the habit of being nasty and insulting IRL. It has to do with the way human habits work. Do something on a regular basis and it becomes habit, like it or not. Understanding how that works gives one the power to begin or end habits, good or bad.
I like to have control over my habits. I like to ask myself: Are you in control of your habits? Or are they controlling you.
Well, the answer is always a little of both. We humans are creatures of habit. But we don't always have to be.
I just like to pick out a few and see if I can adjust things to live a more peaceful and low stress life. I have become a person who can talk about politics with anybody without getting mad, (and one who knows when to back off when others do,) and a much more patient, courteous and safe driver.
As a result, I LOVE my life! Life is fabulous! Life is what you make it, and mine is wonderful. I wish everyone could be as happy as I am. There would certainly be a lot fewer problems in the world if that was the case.